Thanks.

It’s good to see mothers getting out with bub. But i’d rather stay home than do the shopping!

Are any other mothers like that? Most mothers you hear of want to meet up with other mums at coffee shops and go shopping. But even just the thought of being in a shopping centre half the day with a baby sends shivers down my spine.

When I go out shopping with my girls, I usually give them $3-$20 each (depending on my budget, but never less than $3 or more than $20) before we leave the house. Once we get to where ever we’re going for example Target, I’ll take them to the toy section first and let them choose whatever they can afford. Whatever they chose usually keeps them happy for however long we’ll be in that place.

What works for you?

No longer hiding human sexaulity but right therein the shopping mall.

Parents can just say its a grown up toy, clothes and video shop that helps grown ups want to snuggle up with each other, or help those who have nobody to snuggle up with when grwon up not be so sad
Seeone two in shopping malls so far… Was pretty surprised but looked to be a very good thing.

Was also thinking they should remove the 18 restriction and allow teens to come in and for groups like

FOR YOUNG PEOPLE
www.4yp.co.uk

FAMILY PLANNING ASSOCIATION
www.fpa.org.uk

SEXWISE
Tel: 0800 28 29 30
www.ruthinking.co.uk
Free confidential advice and information on sex, relationships and contraception, for anyone under 18.

to maybe work with them so they can be seen by young people as somewhere they can ask for advice as may appear non threatening. Maybe with leaflets etc outside
Why bid D?

what dont you get?
Bri chick the legal age for people to have sex is 16.

it therefore makes no sense to have an 18 rating.

Kids as young as 14 and 15 are sexaully active.

As said was suggesting youth sexaul helath and education groups work through the stores.

as it may make the teenagers feel more relaxed asking a young person questions which realte to pleasure from sexaulity like about blow jbs, or girls asking about masterbation, or things like that which most do want to know but not covered generally in sex ed.

And as said in Holland around 14 tehy take the mystery out of things on a policy that kids hould not have any info missed out.

mosley the shop windos are warm, fun and only have the equivalent of fancy dress and lungerie in the shop front which could just as easily be Marks and Spencers underwear collection. or swim wear to the kid
Emily Jane.

If staff can be trained to discuss how a rabbit vibrator with waves if better then a standard one , then training in giving safe sex advice should be a doddle.

Plus kids clearly dont use those phone lines.

in many cases they aren’t even aware they exist as nobody tells them.

hence making a safe welcoming way for them to ask said questions and maybe put onto those phone lines.
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Loulla has my vote so far but a few things you need to think about.

Namely the age on concent is 16.

Thats two years before 18… where you could have sex 6 times a day& night or more every one of the over 700 days legally in all ways you wish before 18.

So really the 18 restriction seems plain silly.

Like a teenage couple who has been going stead since 15 and active since 16 is going to be bothered by porn.

Hoever the kinds of questions I would expect directed to ann Summers Staff would not be so much the how can I get pregnant.

More what does sperm taste like or can I give bf something so it dont taste so icky.

whats a co**k ring ‘ heard one mentioned in the Christian Slater movie ‘Pump up the volume’

Whats a blow jB?

Is a fluffer a good job (ie the lads have suggested a mate goes and applies for a fluffer job with playboy as it fluffy the pillows— which it certainly is not) you know the normal set kid up for micky taking

I think it’s against the manner, but what do you think?